How many times have you been in the following situation: You think (of) something and a little later everything happens exactly the same way as in your head cinema? Or over months anger accumulates in you. Again and again you find that you are actually unhappy in your job or that the relationship between you and your partner is no longer fulfilling and passionate. Just habit. Then you are suddenly fired. Or your partner separates because he has decided to go another way without you. And you wonder: Why me? Why does this (always) happen to me? You are what you think... Learn more about the law of attraction - and how you become a magnet for magic moments.
Law of Attraction: Stick to your truth
Does the law of attraction really work? Does it really work that I co-create my life? That it just comes to me in the way I think it does? "Yes, especially when each of us goes our own way of the heart and wants to build something completely new, our old self likes to knock on the door again and put us to the test," say Walter Hommelsheim and Christina Grahn-Hommelsheim.
The coaches know only too well how challenging it can be to transform your thoughts into the positive. "The doubt is so great that you almost automatically let yourself be pulled back into old structures. Into the familiar. Into the familiar. There you feel at home. There you feel safe. Ask yourself in such moments: Can I really be sure that I still want the old? Do I believe in myself? That's the most important question. Maybe you can't answer it right now with a clear Yes answer. But stick to your truth. Stay true to yourself," Christina recommends.
At 100%, can you be sure that you still want your old life?Christina Grahn-Hommelsheim
That's how you get your mind
There is a quite simple and in this simplicity nevertheless ingenious possibility to get to the bottom of our thoughts. Namely with the law of attraction: Our left brain hemisphere has infinite possibilities to interpret a simple fact in every imaginable direction. It can combine every memory, every feeling, every thought and every belief from the past and turn it into a pretty convincing "Aha, so that's how it is!", write Christina Grahn-Hommelsheim and Walter Hommelsheim about the law of attraction in their book "Heart over head - The simple formula for a happier life”.
Law of attraction: How to recognize old beliefs and dissolve them
Because you can take your Statement of Faith and questioning - like "I'm always bringing crap into my life", "I'm just unlucky", "Nobody cares about me", "I can't do that anyway" or... "You can ask yourself how you know the thought and whether maybe you just unconsciously took it over. Perhaps this belief, this thought or this story has existed in your family for generations?", Walter makes you think. The magic moment occurs when we question an old belief and then find examples within ourselves of why the opposite or a reversal could be true. With this you can solve the old belief, overwrite it and realign yourself. This is the law of attraction: The deeper you dive into your new thoughts, the faster you become them.
Protect and honor your energy
"If you always think and feel the same, you will always have the same results. A fulfilled life begins with yourself," says Coach Christina. Change comes from the inside out. Only you yourself determine how much abundance, love, joy and success is possible in your life. "As soon as you start to fill your inner world with love and joy, you will experience the same in your relationships, your health, your job and all other areas of life!", she knows from personal experience. The most valuable thing you possess is your energy. It determines what you draw into your life and what you will create. Christina's tip: Protect and honor your energy. Make sure that you bring yourself into a positive state of joy as often as possible! Then trust in the law of attraction, because according to it you are surrounded by joy everywhere.
Law of attraction: How to attract the perfect partner into your life
Maybe you have been in a relationship before - or are currently in one - and are rubbing up against many little things. You're wondering: Why do I keep picking the wrong partners for me? Answer: Because life keeps asking us to do the same thing until we have solved it. If, for example, you often don't get any closeness, attention or interest in your relationships, then you can honestly ask yourself these questions:
- What was the relationship / marriage between your parents?
- What did they show you?
- What image of man/woman did they give you?
- Do you pay attention to yourself and are you honestly interested in yourself?
Take a close look at the issues behind it. Because what hits you affects you. And that's why the law of attraction comes into play here again: You attract exactly those partners into your life who repeatedly hold up the mirror to you on this topic. In this way you bring the perfect partner for you into your life:
- Think: What beliefs have you developed about men/women?
- Be aware of your thoughts about your current or past relationship!
- What values do you associate with a partnership? Write them all down and live them!
- Define together with your partner common values such as honesty, trust or dedication.
Become a magnet for beauty
There are various ways in which you can steer your thoughts back into the positive direction. The more often and the more intensely you deal with it and live accordingly, the faster you radiate this energy and become a magnet for the beautiful, wonderful, fantastic in your life again. Do you feel like doing a new ritual for the next four weeks? Then take notes on these questions every morning or evening:
- Which thoughts, activities, people and environments are currently robbing you of energy?
- What can you do to better protect your energy, to create a positive framework for you to flourish in?
- Write down 3 things you are grateful for!
- What can you do for yourself today?
- What was the best thing about today?
There are so many things you can do to enrich your life from now on. How to get clarity for yourself. Lay the world at your feet! With a Coaching you can set the first course right now. Make new decisions and live them: Who are you in your vision? What values do you associate with the individual areas of life? Think of your future in as many colors as you can. Here we are again on the subject of the law of attraction: Make it big. Really big. If you are now looking for inspiration on all these aspects and questions - maybe our training to GREATORCoach perfect for you. Because this is all about you in the first place. About the person who so often forgets himself or puts himself in the background!