{"id":8622,"date":"2019-11-03T11:59:45","date_gmt":"2019-11-03T10:59:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/greator.com\/?p=8622"},"modified":"2023-01-10T09:10:39","modified_gmt":"2023-01-10T08:10:39","slug":"shary-reeves-learning-to-let-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/greator.com\/en\/shary-reeves-loslassen-lernen\/","title":{"rendered":"Shary Reeves: Letting go the right way - a long road"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Letting go properly - that can sometimes be a long road. Shary Reeves has also been down that road. That's why she wants more people to stand up and speak out against racism and discrimination. She says: \"It has to be guaranteed that in a group of 50 or 60 people there are always a few people who say: That's not how it's done! We humans long to be led. It's like in a football game: you always need three or four players to lead the way. Then there's an energy in the togetherness that's so much stronger than negativity.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speaking of soccer: The sport is one of the few constants that runs through Shary Reeve's life. In the interview, she says: \"Football has shaped me very much from a social point of view. It taught me what it means to win together. And wanting to win is a human instinct. People also need to feel that they are allowed to be special at times.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Successfully dealing with strokes of fate \/\/ Interview with Shary Reeves 2\/3\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/q4kcrLHY3ec?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-altes-loslassen-neue-wege-einschlagen\">Letting go of the old, taking new paths<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">From top athlete to presenter: Shary Reeves played in the German national league, but then switched to the media sector, where she could earn considerably more money. She says: \"I love being on stage and started out playing music with my siblings.\" Her band <a href=\"https:\/\/de.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sqeezer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\"Sqeezer\" <\/a>was successful for several years. In the end, however, the siblings decided to go their separate ways career-wise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>I let go of friendships that weren't doing me any good.<\/p><cite>Shary Reeves<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By chance, the Cologne native landed a moderator job at WDR. In addition to presenting, Shary Reeves also worked as an actress in the early evening series \"Marienhof\". She reports: \"It was a nice time, but I noticed relatively quickly that the real soap took place behind the scenes. I found it very exhausting. There were actors who had therapy in the workplace and really forced friendships on me that I didn't want. I went along with that at the time, but eventually broke away from people who weren't good for me.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-wissen-macht-ah\">Knowledge makes Ah!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shary Reeves then hosted the children's series \"Wissen macht Ah!\" for 16 years. She says: \"It was a great format and a damn good constellation of people who managed to reach other people. We were authentic and credible with what we did. I got to be part of one of the most awesome formats for kids and teens ever.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-nach-tragischen-schicksalsschl-gen-vertrauen-loslassen\">After tragic strokes of fate: trust &amp; let go<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But Shary Reeves also had to suffer tragic blows of fate. Her brother, who was known throughout Germany for his music, was brutally murdered. A short time later, her father died - also in a horrific murder. She recounts, \"When I was on my way to my father's funeral, my foster mom also died. For me, the day she died wasn't real at all.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Shary Reeves is asked today how to deal with such terrible situations, she answers: \"You can't ignore the obvious. And the obvious is that life includes both the day and the night. I understood that very early on.\" <script charset=\"utf-8\" type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"\/\/js.hsforms.net\/forms\/v2.js\">&lt;script>var excludenum = 0;var panelTop = 0;var zeitBisBlock = 0;hbspt.forms.create({portalId: \"4472479\",formId: \"d87ebbd3-e7fb-4ac5-8e53-0f9e2b9e976a\",target: \"#form-d87ebbd3-e7fb-4ac5-8e53-0f9e2b9e976a\"});start_BlockerScript();<\/script><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Richtig loslassen \u2013 das kann manchmal ein langer Weg sein. 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