Some wishes have been with us for years, others arise from a sudden inspiration. But many remain mere thoughts - because everyday life dominates, doubts arise or there is a lack of courage. However, it is possible to make every real wish come true. In this article, we show you how to do this.
Realizing a wish means turning an inner vision - be it a goal, a dream or a heartfelt desire - into reality. It is about deriving concrete steps from thoughts, overcoming obstacles and taking responsibility for shaping your own life.
This could be professional success, a relationship, a creative project or an inner state such as serenity or clarity. The decisive factor is that the desire comes from yourself, not from external expectations.
Although we often long for change, many wishes remain unfulfilled. Why is that?
The majority of wish blocks are caused by self-doubt ("I'm not good enough") or fear of failure ("What if it doesn't work out?"). These thought patterns prevent us from taking the first step.
Many people do not know exactly, what they actually want. A vague wish such as "more freedom" needs to be concrete in order to be realizable.
Wishes remain vague as long as they are not translated into realistic goals, schedules and routines. Nothing happens without a plan.
Every wish that is realized begins with an honest look inwards. What do you really want - and why?
Answer the following questions in writing:
This clarity is the basis for all further steps.
Formulate your wish as a concrete, positive goal. Instead of "I want to get out of my job", say: "I want a job that uses my strengths and gives me freedom."
Thoughts create reality. How you think influences how you act.
Imagine your wish in every detail: How does it feel to have achieved it? Where are you, with whom, how do you see yourself? Studies show that regular visualization strengthens motivation and focus (cf. APA, 2021).
Positive beliefs such as "I actively shape my life" or "I am allowed to be successful" can replace blocking patterns. The important thing is: repetition and feeling.
Make a note of typical doubts and find a constructive counter-thought for each one. This way you won't lose energy to inner saboteurs.
Realizing wishes means taking small steps every day.
A big goal can quickly seem overwhelming. Break it down into stages - and then into tiny steps. Ask yourself: What can I today do?
Example: Wish = write your own book
Repetition anchors your plan in your everyday life. Set fixed times or triggers (e.g. 10 minutes of desire focus every morning after coffee). How studies of the Stanford Graduate School of Business show that small habits have a long-term effect.
You alone are responsible for your path. Excuses or blame lead to powerlessness. Instead, allow yourself to be the creator. The Harvard Business Review emphasizes the influence of personal responsibility on goal achievement and well-being.
In the video you will find a wonderful meditation on wish fulfillment through visualizing your dreams.
No path is linear. The decisive factor is how you deal with resistance.
A setback is not proof that your wish was wrong. Perhaps the strategy was inappropriate. Learn, adjust and move on.
Frustration, disappointment or fear are allowed. If you suppress them, they build up. If you allow them, they can be transformed.
Support from a coach, mentor or like-minded people can strengthen you. At Greator, you will find plenty of inspiration for your journey.
"Desires are the compass of our innermost being. If we follow them, they lead us to a life that truly belongs to us.", Debora Karsch, Greator Personality Coach
If you want to realize your wish, it is helpful to better understand your inner drives. The free personality test from Greator provides you with exciting insights into your strengths, drivers and development potential - as a basis for real change.
Realizing a wish is not a coincidence, but a conscious process. With the right inner attitude, a concrete plan and the willingness to grow, you can create a life that matches your deepest desires. It starts with a first step - today.
