Do you know this? You meet people, talk a lot - but say little. Small talk, weather, "What are you up to?" - Nice, but untouching. There is no depth. Closeness is missing. And you long for a real exchange. For topics that connect. In this article, you'll find out why many conversations remain superficial, how you can create real Topics to talk about and what you can do to release blockages in communication - whether in everyday life, in a partnership or in a coaching context.
Before we devote ourselves to good topics of conversation, one point is crucial: depth begins not with wordsbut with attitude.
Those who are inwardly closed FearBeing judged, being hurt, not being enough - often remains hidden, even in conversation. But real connection arises where you show yourself. With thoughts that move you. With Feelingsthat you would otherwise hide.
Therefore: Releasing blockages is the first step towards genuine communication. Many people carry old imprints within them ("I'm not being heard", "I'm too much") that work unconsciously. Recognizing these changes everything.
According to communication research, we spend around 70-80 % of our day in some form of communication - but how much of it is genuine? We often talk without really listening. Or listen without really being present.
Deep conversations arise when ...
That's why the selection of "good topics" is only one part. The other is your inner attitude: curious, open, non-judgmental.
Instead of a simple list, we offer you five Conversation dimensionsthat you can initiate in conversations - depending on the depth, relationship and situation.
What really drives your counterpart?
These questions open up spaces - not just for stories, but for personality.
Experiences shape us - and conversations about them connect us.
This often creates more than just information: trust.
Having the courage to show yourself emotionally opens up your counterpart:
Also in the Coaching is the central work: Allow emotional honesty.
Discussions about the future create shared perspectives:
This is where Inspiration - for both sides.
Couple relationships in particular often lack real questions:
"The more genuine the question, the deeper the relationship." - Christina Hommelsheim
Many people feel it: I want closeness - but I'm blocking myself. The causes often lie deeper:
This is shown, for example, by ...
This is exactly what life coaching is all about: reconnect people with themselves and others.
Coaches work with questions, with presence, with resonance. The best conversations in coaching do not arise from concepts - but from genuine interest.
With Greator, for example, you will be in the Life Coach Training trained in exactly that: To communicate deeply and sincerely - and to gently release blockages in the process.
If you want to have good conversations, you need more than just topics - you need a willingness to show yourself. But this is exactly where real closeness, healing and development arise. Whether in partnership, friendship or coaching.
If you want to go down this path - towards more authenticity, connection and inner clarity - then start with yourself. The best way to do this is our free blockage release session with Christina & Walter Hommelsheim.
You will be amazed at what happens when you start to listen to yourself.
